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  • Writer's pictureThe Bush Empress

Healing Hearts: The Power of Herbs in Grief and Collective Healing

Discover the soothing embrace of nature's gentle healers and unlock the secrets of healing from collective grief.

Lit candles in the darkness with some foliage

Grief is a universal human experience, a journey through the deepest and most profound emotions we can feel. It is a process that follows us throughout our lives, and at times, it can be overwhelming and all-consuming. When we think of grief, we often think of it in a personal context, associated with the loss of a loved one or the end of a significant chapter in our lives. However, there is another dimension of grief, one that extends beyond the individual and reaches into the collective human experience.

Understanding Collective Grief

Collective grief is the shared sorrow experienced by a community, a nation, or even the entire world. It manifests in response to events that affect us on a global scale, such as natural disasters, acts of violence, or pandemics. In a world where we are increasingly interconnected, we experience these collective traumas as if they were our own personal losses. We grieve not only for our individual pain but for the pain of others and for the world as a whole.

The COVID-19 pandemic is a prime example of collective grief. Millions of people across the globe have experienced the loss of loved ones, economic stability, and a sense of normalcy. In the face of such widespread suffering, it becomes evident that we need tools and strategies to support and heal collective grief.

A Note On Grief

Grief is a completely normal and okay part of life. It's a sign of your deep emotions, a reminder that you're wonderfully human. Don't shy away from it; instead, give it space to breathe. I know easier said than done - grief is hard, it's ugly but it is necessary. And hey, if you ever need a hand to hold or a shoulder to lean on, reach out to a friend, a family member, or a pro – you don't have to go through it solo. There are people who care about you and want to help. 💕

Here's the thing: suppressing grief and rushing through it can lead to all sorts of distractions. We're talking Netflix marathons, endless scrolling on social media, or even busyness with no downtime. But guess what? That grief isn't going anywhere; it's camping out within you. And that uninvited guest can lead to some funky physical symptoms like trouble breathing, anxiety and depression.

But there is a silver lining and it's that grief isn't just a pain; it's a teacher. It's trying to tell you something about what truly matters in your life. You're stronger than you think. Weathering the storm of grief will make you even more resilient for the sunny days ahead.

Herbs as Healers of Grief

Herbs have long been used as healers, not only for the body but also for the mind and spirit. Three herbs that hold a special place in the realm of grief and healing are rose, chrysanthemum and tulsi. Flower essences are also a great option to help with navigating the emotional rollercoaster of grief. 🌿💕

Two tea cups and saucers filled with rose tea and a trail of white flowers

Rose (Rosa spp.)

The rose, with its delicate and fragrant petals, is often associated with love and beauty. However, it is also a potent symbol of healing and transformation. When it comes to grief, rose petals can be used to create a soothing and gentle tea. Rose tea can help ease the symptoms of grief, such as anxiety and sadness, by promoting a sense of calm and emotional balance.

The essence of the rose is said to open the heart, which is closely linked to our ability to give and receive love. In times of grief, our hearts can become closed off and guarded. Rose helps us gently release the pain and sorrow, allowing us to open up to the possibility of healing.

Chrysanthemum (Chrysanthemum x morifolium.)

Chrysanthemum, often associated with longevity and joy, carries powerful properties that aid in the grieving process. Its bright and vibrant blooms bring a sense of lightness and hope. Chrysanthemum tea, brewed from dried petals, can help alleviate symptoms of grief such as insomnia and anxiety. Its calming effects allow for a more restful sleep and a clearer mind, which is vital for the healing process.

Dried chrysanthemum flowers

Furthermore, chrysanthemum is believed to have the ability to cleanse negative energy, making it a helpful aid in releasing pent-up emotions and finding emotional clarity during times of collective grief.

Tulsi aka Holy Basil (Ocimum sanctum or Ocimum tenuiflorum)

Tulsi is like a warm, understanding friend who sits with you in your moments of sorrow. It has a soothing presence that helps ease emotional pain and bring a sense of calm to your spirit. When grief feels like a storm, Tulsi is your anchor. This herb is like a gentle embrace for your nervous system, helping to rebalance your emotions. When grief knocks you off balance, Tulsi can gently guide you back to your centre. It has adaptogenic properties, which means it can help your body adapt to stress, both physical and emotional. When your heart feels heavy, Tulsi offers a helping hand to lighten the load.

Additionally, tulsi not only soothes the pain but also helps you find clarity amidst the chaos. It supports your mental and emotional resilience, allowing you to better process your feelings and make sense of the turmoil.

A brass bowl with water and roses floating in it

Flower Essences

Flower essences are a beautiful and profound form of natural healing that works on the emotional and energetic aspects of our being. These remedies harness the subtle vibrations and energy of flowers to bring balance to our emotional states. In the context of grief, flower essences can be a gentle and comforting companion on the path to healing. They work by helping us process and release the complex emotions that grief often brings, from shock and sadness to guilt and resentment. These essences can guide us towards a place of inner peace, acceptance, and emotional resilience.

Note: when used in combination with other grief support methods, flower essences offer a safe and non-invasive way to navigate the depths of sorrow and emerge with a renewed sense of hope and healing. Each essence carries its own unique qualities, much like the flowers themselves, and can be chosen to address the specific emotions and challenges that accompany the grieving process.

Healing From Grief as a Community

As we explore the power of herbs in the healing process, we must remember that collective grief is not something we face alone. Just as these herbs can be used to support personal healing, they can also play a role in collective healing.

Sharing a cup of rose, tulsi or chrysanthemum tea with loved ones can be a beautiful way to come together and acknowledge our shared pain. In doing so, we not only find comfort in each other's presence but also strengthen our bonds as a community. The act of gathering, sharing stories, and expressing our emotions collectively can be a powerful step towards healing the wounds of the world.

Grief, whether personal or collective, is an inescapable part of the human experience. Herbs with their healing properties and soothing effects, can offer support and comfort on our journey through sorrow. Through the collective sharing of these herbs and our experiences, we can find solace and strength in each other as we navigate the challenges of life and work toward healing the world's wounds together. In the end, it is through love, connection, and the natural gifts of the Earth that we can begin to mend our hearts and spirits.

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Dried flower with the words The Power of Herbs in Grief


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